Bubbles Bubbles Bubbles

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You quite simply can’t go wrong with children and bubbles, no matter the age. My favorite are the soap-free, sugar-based bubbles from Gymboree, since I don’t need to worry about stray bubbles popping near Travis’s eyes or mouth. These bubbles also have the uncanny ability not to pop while you catch them on your fingers, toes, or the ground.

Our favorite place for bubbles is in the tub, but in the interest of privacy, I didn’t want to take photos during bath time! So one sunny afternoon this week we brought the fun outside. It was quite windy, which meant Travis had to chase down the bubbles, quite different from when we blow them indoors! He seemed to enjoy the exercise involved, even if the pay-off of catching a bubble was not as apparent.

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Once he tired of running after bubbles, he wanted a turn with the wand! He first asked to blow bubbles himself about two months ago, and still hasn’t quite gotten the hang of it.

What I love is his reaction when he lifts the wand to his mouth, attempts to blow, and nothing happens. Instead of getting frustrated, he says “I missed!” or “We tried!” – the two phrases I use when accidents happen around the house or events don’t go as planned. I hope that by saying these phrases with a light tone and a smile, Travis will learn how to manage his emotions when things go wrong, and to see that sometimes life is about trying but not succeeding, and that’s okay.

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Sorry to get a little heavy-handed in a blog post about bubbles! Needless to say, we tried and succeeded perfectly well with this activity today in terms of fun and joy.

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Exploring Pasta

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Various toddler books and websites promote the idea of pasta exploration as a sensory game, but I’ve hesitated to do any pasta activities with Travis ever since one attempt in January (18 months old), when he put a dry pasta shape in his mouth and then looked at me in horror. I was flabbergasted, as he has never been a mouther, and this confused attempt to eat pasta was literally the only time in his life I worried about him gnawing on something inedible.

So at 22 months, I decided to give dry pasta another go, with various goals in mind.

The first was simply for the sensory experience, providing him with a large basin and scoop. He quickly lost interest (a little too old now, I think), and decided it would be more fun to throw the pasta.

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Here’s one of those moments to keep your parenting cool! I turned his curiosity into a lesson on dynamics, telling him pasta could be loud or quiet, and we wanted our pasta to be quiet i.e. gently placed back in the container. When he got a little too toddler-y on me (those pasta shapes were just so intriguing skittering and breaking across the kitchen floor…) I moved the game to the rug.

My second goal was to have Travis sort the pasta by shape, so I provided him with 3 types I thought were different enough: rigatoni, fusilli, and rather fun tennis rackets (racchettes).

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Despite having learned his colors and shapes very early, Travis shows no interest in sorting, and ignored my attempts to encourage him to sort today, but I took the opportunity to discuss the differences between the shapes (curly versus straight, wide versus skinny), and I know he absorbed it on some level.

Once we moved to the rug, though, things got interesting. Travis became very concerned with clean up, and sang himself the Gymboree clean-up song while moving pasta pieces from the rug back to the box, which I’d left on the floor.  He enjoyed this version of the game for quite a while.

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He then stumbled upon the discovery that one of the shapes I’d selected (rigatoni) could fit on his finger and voila! He started having the pieces talk to each other like puppets (acting out Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus, in fact). I was laughing hysterically, and joined in the fun.

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Who knew? Rigatoni puppets. Sometimes it takes an almost-two-year-old to have the best idea.