Kiss Chase

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At eight months old, Veronika has made a big leap: the art of anticipation. This is why you may notice your baby holding out his or her arms now to be picked up, or anticipating a host of other moments in a daily routine.

One way to have fun with this? Be a kissy monster!

“I’m going to kiss you!” I say to Veronika. Wait for it…

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Wait for it…

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Then I either swoop in and kiss her everywhere, or give raspberries to her belly, or pick her up and kiss all over her cheeks.

She giggles every time, because she knows what’s coming!

This game has only gotten more fun as Veronika attempts to crawl. Now it really can be a “chase.” I tease her by saying, “I’m coming for you!”

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Oh no, can she get away?

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Caught by the kissy monster again!

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Wave Bye-Bye

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The more you model the behavior of saying and waving bye-bye, the sooner your baby will understand this important gesture of human communication. Today, Veronika and I played a few fun “bye-bye” games.

For the first, I hid a toy inside a box, first saying, “Bye-bye toy!” I made sure to give a little wave.

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She eagerly reached right into the box each time to dig out the toy, and we repeated the process over and over until she tired of it.

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Another adorable version is to sit your child on one side of a door frame. With a big smile and wave, say, “bye-bye!” and then disappear around the corner. Immediately pop back into view and say, “hello again!” I remember this getting huge smiles from Travis as a baby, and now it was Veronika’s turn.

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Finally, say bye-bye all over the place throughout your day. You can do this when you leave a location (“bye-bye library!”) or a person (“bye-bye Grammy!”). Veronika looks like she wants to give a wave, and the more I model, the sooner she will.

On a personal note, we turn today to say “bye-bye” to our apartment, the only home Veronika has ever known. Here’s to new beginnings and many hellos to come!

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Make Your Baby Laugh

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Veronika has developed the most impish sense of humor; she cackles with her big brother when she knows the two of them are being slightly naughty, like playing with the fabric of the couch instead of taking her nap, or giggling together in the back seat of the car. The best is when she treats us to her big belly laugh, and we’re always on the hunt for new ways to make it erupt.

Here are a few ideas to try with your eight month old! First, I fell back on the old parental favorite: making silly faces. This got big happy grins, especially when I make bubbly sounds with my lips.

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Next I tickled her thighs and tummy. This got a giggle, but still not a belly laugh.

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Finally, I pretended that her feet were really stinky and smelly, and made faces of disgust. Cue the belly laugh!

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While you’re at it, don’t forget to nurture your own sense of humor. I sometimes tell my husband I have no brain capacity for anything more serious than a sitcom at the end of the day, and I truly mean that. After dealing with little humans non-stop for 15 hours, I need comedy!

Find one that makes you belly laugh, even if that means old re-runs.

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You can also curl up with a book that makes you laugh out loud (might I recommend anything P.G, Wodehouse?) or head to the theater for laughs if you can get a babysitter. Even some kids movies these days have comedy of high caliber, like a recent family outing to Toy Story 4, meaning you can skip the babysitter altogether.

What makes you laugh these days? What makes your baby laugh? Please share in the comments!

Baby Squats and Mama Bench Presses

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Veronika is just about at that age when babies start pulling up. To encourage the motion, today she did her squats!

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Hold your baby on your lap, with his or her feet firmly on your thighs. As many times as he or she will tolerate, let them push up to stand and then squat back down.

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The first few times we played the game, she would hang her feet in the air, uncertain what to do.

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Then she started to get the hang of using those leg muscles. Veronika didn’t know she was getting exercise, she just loved the up and down motion.

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When she put her weight on her feet, I encouraged her with a big grin and a “Soooo big!”

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After baby gets some exercise, why not reverse things and fit in a few quick moves of your own? Because she can support her upper body completely now, it was time for some Veronika bench presses. Lie flat on your back with your knees bent and hold your baby on your tummy, then lift high into the air. A work out for mama and an airplane ride for baby!

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Or why not flip over and do push ups? For this one, I lay Veronika on her back and assumed push up position over her.

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We nuzzle noses and say I love you each time I press down and then she giggles as I push back up again.

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Note: All photo credits in this post go to big brother Travis!

Banana Talk

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This quick game was an adorable way to play with Veronika at mealtime. It’s about concrete learning on the one hand – vocabulary, taste, texture – but also introduces a playful silliness that your baby can understand now, at eight months old. Banana phones are a classic of a reason!

I came over to Veronika’s tray carrying a banana up to my ear. Hello hello hello? I had a quick chat into the phone, and passed it to her.

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She looked at it in wonder and wanted to grab for it, of course.

Big brother wanted to have a quick turn on the phone call too!

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Next I turned back one edge of the banana peel and let her pull it the rest of the way down. Bananas are the perfect process food!

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She looked amazed as she worked her way around the whole peel – and then of course we broke off bites to eat and share!

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Reply to Your Baby

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I had a nice realization this morning that Veronika never uses a newborn’s instinctual cries of “neh” or “heh” or “eh” anymore. Her babble is big baby babble!

My favorite these days is when I catch her in avid conversation, usually either with her food or her toys. She’ll try out new sounds (p and w are favorites in her repertoire these days), and it looks like she has a whole animated story going on in her head.

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Today I made a point of talking back. Whether I imitate her consonants and vowels or use real words, Veronika looks so pleased when she “talks” with us.

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For further fun, I sat her down with big brother Travis and let the two of them have a “chat.” Travis – who is so eager for Veronika’s first word – loved this game, which soon had them laughing between the babbles.

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Here’s a quick clip of a chat today!

Any activity like this will only help foster your baby’s language development, so talk early and often.

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Rock ‘n’ Roll

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Veronika is so close to crawling, but her arms still aren’t quite strong enough yet to propel forward. You can build those arm muscles by placing a bolster under your baby’s belly; think of this as 8 month old tummy time!

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I rolled up a beach towel tightly and positioned her with arms over it and legs behind.

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Now lift your baby’s legs. The weight will transfer to their arms, and hopefully he or she will “walk” the hands forward.

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Veronika was delighted! Mom, she seemed to say, I’m doing it!

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You can roll baby forwards a little ways – just make sure you are on a smooth surface, and not a carpet.

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After I let go of her legs, I let Veronika hang out this way for a while. She kicked her feet, and shifted her torso side to side to check out the towel, so she was still getting in quite a little workout.

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In and Out Games

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Babies just seem to love containers, especially finding one with various items inside and dumping them out. Contain that natural inclination with these variations on in and out games!

For the first version, I simply filled a shoebox with a few toys, trying to make them novel for Veronika; we had a few new squishy balls, empty So Delicious yogurt containers, and some favorite soft toys.

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The entire goal of the game was for her to reach in and pull things out, then fill the box back up and start all over again. She was up for it!

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The shoebox proved to be a little too big for her to lift and dump, so I eventually transferred everything to a small toy bin. I showed her how to upend this.

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What a fun game, mommy!

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For the next version, I got a little more technical with language learning. Use a plastic bowl instead of a box (just to mix things up!) and add different toys.

Pop beads are a fun burst of color for babies; just be sure you have these joined in secure loops, since the individual beads can pose a choking hazard.

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This time, I first said, “Put in,” and encouraged her to place items in the bowl.

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Then we reversed it: “Take out,” I said, each time she reached in a hand to grab out an item.

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Note: ‘take out’ happened a lot more than ‘put in’, which I expected! But repeating the words each time will help your baby learn the concepts.

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I also encouraged her to hand toys to me, using an open-hand gesture and language.

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This is a great game to play on repeat as your little one nears that exciting moment of first words!

Indoor Sandbox Edible Sensory Bin

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As a follow up to her first edible sensory tray, today I put together this easy indoor edible sandbox for Veronika… complete with snacks sprinkled in!

Fill a shallow bin with oats, and scatter in a few teething biscuits or toddler cookies (Veronika loves the organic Letter of the Day cookies from Earth’s Best).

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Add a few cups or scoops and the bin is ready to go!

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Veronika immediately got her hands in, and when she found the first cookie, her look was one of pure delight. Yum!

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She kept digging through and loved scattering the oats around.

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And she was intrigued when I showed her how she could scoop the mixture into the cups and shake them around, or pour them out.

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Big brother wanted in on the action, too!

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I loved watching the two of them have fun with this one together.

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And because the oats are dry, this sensory bin is remarkably easy to clean up! Have a blanket underneath your baby that you can simply shake into the trash, and anything left behind will sweep up in a pinch.

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Getting Used to Other Babies

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Veronika is eight months old today! Eight months is a fantastic age to introduce the idea of parallel play; that is, playing alongside other babies or slightly older toddlers, even though children this young won’t play together yet.

The perfect candidates for this activity? Cousins! If you don’t have cousins nearby, seek out neighbors or friends whose children are close in age to your baby.

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Just watching bigger kids is a lesson for a baby. Veronika loved to sit near her toddler cousins as they all played in the same room.

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She’s been super-observant of cousins during summer get-togethers thus far, marveling at the big kids in the pool, playing by babies her age at the beach, watching older toddlers eat, and playing together in playrooms.

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Where does your child get to meet other babies and toddlers? Please share in the comments!