Changing World

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Your baby’s world is changing constantly at two months old – there are so many things to discover each day! – and at the same time, the world around us is constantly changing, too, even in little ways. One great way to let your little one observe the world going by is to sit near a window together.

I propped Veronika on my knee and we started the game at home. I narrated to her what I could see that was stationary: the sky, the trees. But even more interesting was when someone went by: neighbors walking dogs, people getting mail, a delivery truck driving along. These seemingly mundane moments will be big events in the movie outside the window! Even the wind swaying the bushes.

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To extend the game, we headed to a local book store and took a seat by the cafe window. Once again, I could point out the world to Veronika: people strolling sidewalks, cars driving past, parked cars, the sunshine on the buildings.

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Don’t be afraid to narrate out loud! The more you say, the more language your baby will absorb.

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Calm Big Sibling Jealousy

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I’m two and a half months into life with two, so it was time to take stock: how was the big sibling faring when it came to jealousy?

Taking my cue from a fantastic post at Hands on As we Grow, I assessed myself on a list of five tips to curb jealousy. Here’s my run down of what’s worked well for us:

First: Use of a feeding time activity basket. This was a huge hit when Veronika was first home from the hospital, instantly making Travis feel special. But quite honestly, Travis lost interest quickly. He’s old enough to play his own games (and she is a “snacker”, nursing for very short periods, which helps!). But if your child needs direction and you have a baby who nurses in marathon sessions, I highly recommend this fix.

Second: Wear a baby carrier. I honestly didn’t babywear much with Travis, but I’ve found it to be a life-saver with baby #2. When we grocery shop, Travis can help scan all the items and feel like we’re having one-on-one time, as Veronika snoozes away oblivious in the carrier. I even chaperoned for Travis’s school field trip – he felt so special to have his mom there, and people hardly noticed the little baby sleeping away in the carrier!

Third: Use a baby monitor. This is useful in a couple of ways. First, Travis just loves the technology, and can be the big helper moving the camera with the arrow buttons. It also means I don’t have to tell him to be quiet as often, if she is napping in another room instead of the middle of the living room!

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Fourth: Involve big siblings in taking care of the baby. This can be everything from snuggling up for a story, or getting them a toy, or helping at diaper changes. Travis loves handing over a burp cloth whenever I need one, and he’s an expert at rearranging her blanket in the back seat of the car if it rides up.

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Finally, for siblings who still nap, Hands On recommends scheduling naps at different times. I couldn’t agree more, as one-on-one time is key! But Travis has dropped his nap, so my self-appointed task was to make sure I made time for him during Veronika’s nap. Naptime for her is when I get in there with Travis: playing, doing a craft, or exploring something together – something you have to be a big kid to do, no babies allowed!

In sum, all five of these are useful tips, and thanks to Hands On for the original post!

 

Name Drop

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Infants are exposed to thousands of words every day, but one of the very first words your infant will learn to distinguish is his or her name. Help the process along with this cute activity!

Today – and most days! – make it a point of saying your child’s name as you do each thing throughout the day, instead of “you.” So: “Veronika is getting a diaper change,” “Veronika is playing on her play mat.” You might even get big smiles for your efforts!

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To be even more playful, switch up the lyrics of songs to include your child’s name. This is something I’ve always done with lullabies, for both my chlidren, but today we had fun using a musical chime toy to sing “Oh Veronika” instead of “Oh Suzanna,” as well as “Rock-a-Bye Veronika,” Veronika Had a Little Lamb” and other favorites.

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And it helps to have her name written in various places around the house, too. It’s a long way off, but eventually your little one will sightread their name as a first step toward reading.

How else are we talking with Veronika these days? Happy conversations back and forth! She’s really starting to “chat” up a storm, and I don’t want to ignore these attempts at language. As mentioned in my review of Cricket Crate’s Faces kit, when a baby “oohs,” “ah gehs” and “mmms” at you, she’s trying out words.

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We’ve been having a lot of happy back and forths; it turns out Veronika is a very opinionated little lady!

Entertain With Dances

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Today, I got silly for Veronika!

Moms and Dads, set aside your inhibitions, prop your little one up, and get dancing. I promise you that your baby won’t judge; he or she will just love the show.

To make things fun for Veronika, I picked kid-friendly dance music, pulling from Travis’s music mix (think: the type of songs you hear at a Gymboree over and over and over).

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For added effect, I even put on a “costume” – a top hat and feather boa.

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Now it was time to pull out dance moves from back in my high school theater days – jazz hands and chorus line feet were in heavy rotation. The hat made a perfect peek-a-boo prop mid-dance!

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She seemed so into it, if perhaps mildly startled at mommy’s antics at times!

I also tapped her little feet along to the rhythm, so she could feel it in her body.

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Bottom line: don’t feel silly – get silly! Your baby will love the entertainment.

Book Swap

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Reading is now a nightly part of Veronika’s routine; here at two months old, she finally has a real “bedtime”! But the same few baby books can become old hat rather quickly, even after only a few weeks. We’ve had a heavy rotation of black & white-themed books for Veronika for a while, so it was time to swap in some new ones.

No need to head to the store and spend all your money for this activity. Make your library your best friend, and check out some of the classics. Some old favorites from when Travis was little include: Little Blue Truck; Peek-a-Who; the That’s Not My… series from Usborne Books, and Eric Carle’s My Very First Book of Colors.

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What’s good for your baby in their developmental stage right now? Bold colors, bright contrasts, and simple story lines.

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Many libraries also have suggested reading lists for babies. These can be a great way to search among the board books, if you don’t know where to start.

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Veronika seemed to feel special when I sat her down in my lap for storytime with the new books.

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And big siblings can be big helpers reading books, especially ones with flaps to open or lift.

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What’s on your infant’s reading list? Please share in the comments, and happy reading!

Noisy Toys

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Veronika has been reaching for her toys for a few weeks now, and is starting to get a good grip on those that I hold within reach – so it was time to teach her a little bit about cause and effect!

Toys that make noise are great for this purpose. The more your baby holds a toy, moves it, and then hears a noise, the better he or she will start to realize that they were able to create the noise through their actions.

So I put together a big pile of toys from our baby bin that made various sounds. Classic rattles are great for this of course, but I also added some with bells, crinkly sounds, and various other auditory fun.

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One by one, I held them out for Veronika, and let her take hold. She loved crinkling this one!

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When I rolled the beads inside this rattle, she began kicking her feet at it, almost like she was peddling a little stationary bike. She was clearly delighted at her actions and the effect!

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Noisy toys are also great on the go, as with this rattle book on a trip to the library.

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While she was on her play mat today, I left the noisy toys scattered within reach, so that when her hand came down on one, she could grasp it and give it a try.

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Overall, a super fun way to introduce her to new toys and new concepts.

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The result of all that fun and mental stimulation in the morning? Napping soundly all afternoon!

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Play with Finger Puppets

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Today, I got crafty for Veronika! Travis and I wanted to make her a set of animal finger puppets, which I copied from a template. Technically, the felt pieces are meant to be sewn together. But I will be honest: I cannot sew to save my life. What I can do is hot glue, and that worked in a pinch!

First, draw a template for the bodies of the animals on white paper. Pin the paper to a piece of felt, and cut out. You’ll need two for each animal, front and back. I used white felt for a zebra, green for a crocodile, yellow for a lion, and light blue for a hippo.

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Hot glue (or sew) the two pieces together.

Next I added tiny bits of felt for each animal’s features. The zebra got black triangles for stripes, a black nose, and pink ears.

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The hippo had a piece going horizontally across for his nose in the same light blue, as well as pink ears and eyes. The lion got a brown mane, and a yellow circle glued over that for the face. The crocodile got big white eyes and itsy-bitsy white triangles for teeth.

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Add any final features with a pen or sharpie.

These came out so cute! You can hold them up for your little one to see. Veronika might have been slightly alarmed at first.

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I named each animal for her, and made their sounds, and had them act out silly hand plays.

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Big sibs will definitely want to take a turn with the puppets on!

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Finally, we used the animals at story time. If you have books featuring any of the animals you’ve made, trot out the puppet to help bring the story alive. Or choose which animal to make based on what books you have at home!

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We’ll be playing with these for a long time to come, I can already tell.

Color Vision

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It’s never too early to introduce colors to your infant! Because your two-month-old’s eyes are now able to distinguish between shades, make sure to include a wide variety of colors in his or her toys. Today, I emphasized color each time she was on her playmat.

We have a set of shape toys that are in easy, bold colors, and they were perfect for this game (as opposed to multi-colored toys). I named each color in turn as I held it up to Veronika, and encouraged her to reach out.

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Some she wanted to grab onto.

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Purple and blue got big smiles – maybe those will be her favorite colors down the line!

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Then I set up all the colors in front of her for tummy time, so she could look at the rainbow.

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We played later in the day with musical instruments, and I showed her a few that were in bold, solid colors, like red rhythm sticks…

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… and purple maracas. What a great way to start introducing a rainbow-hued world.

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Faces & Emotions Cricket Crate

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This week, Veronika and I cracked open the last of the newborn three-pack from Kiwi Co., originally termed Cricket Crate, and now having shifted to Tadpole Crate. The theme of this last box was faces and emotions, and the keepsake was just what we needed – a new tummy time prop!

The tummy time mirror folds out in four panels on two sides, for eight visual panels total. You can lift the flaps and explore on each, where silly fruits wear different facial expressions.

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These are great for starting the conversation with your wee one about emotions – hey there, silly blueberry! Hello happy banana!

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Oh look, a sad cherry. I giggled and so did she!

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Next, we experimented with four different ways to position the mirror:

Hanging in her bassinet (Note: this is great when I need to entertain her as I cook dinner!);

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Upright for when she lies on her back;

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Folded into a triangle for tummy time;

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And lying on the floor for tummy time. This last she isn’t quite ready for yet, but it definitely encouraged head lifts.

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Don’t stop there! The Wonder magazine had lots of suggestions for games. First, we played ‘Look BothWays’; I used it as a way to encourage her to turn her head to the right, since she favors the left. By putting the panels on the other side, she turned her head and strengthened the muscles on that side.

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Next we played ‘Name That Facial Feature,’ similar to the game we play when she touches my face. This time, I touched the mirror, then the corresponding part on her face, naming each feature as I went.

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Lots of wonder in her eyes!

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It’s also great for helping your child learn their own name. Your baby won’t realize that the reflection is them – not until much closer to one year old – but this was a chance to say ‘Veronika,’ and point first at the mirror, then to her body. I taped a photo of her to one of the mirror panels to reinforce the notion.

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Next we played ‘Emotional Me’; I made silly faces into the mirror, naming each emotion. To further this idea, I lay down next to her on the blanket (she looked so surprised finding us face-to-face!), and held up my phone in selfie mode. She was instantly captivated – who was that baby staring back? We went through emotions – happy, surprised, sad – and you could see her trying to copy each. Take some adorable pics while you’re at it!

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Another great way to talk about faces and people is to go through photo albums with your child. Veronika loves the one I have with crinkly textures and soft pages, full of family pics.

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Or you can even look at strangers; babies will take any faces they can get. We flipped through a magazine together, and I pointed out what each person was feeling, or if they were old or young.

Finally, start to actually engage your little one in “conversation.” Ask a question or make a comment then… Wait! Give your baby time to respond, and they will start to pick up on the rhythm of how a real conversation goes. I was rewarded with lots of little “ah ooh” and “ah geh” responses, and she seemed to happy to be “talking” with me just like she sees big brother do!

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The book this month concentrated on emotions too, aptly titled Cricket’s Feelings. Don’t be afraid of getting overly dramatic as you read each page in this book – happy, scared, excited etc. You might feel silly, but Veronika was wide-eyed!

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We also read:

Baby Faces by Margaret Miller

Huggy Kissy by Leslie Patricelli

Happy Hipp, Angry Duck by Sandra Boynton

Little Gorilla by Ruth Bornstein

Gideon & Otto by Oliver Dunrea

and From Head to Toe, by Eric Carle

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The website bonus this month was a downloadable Tummy Time tracker. This sheet was definitely a reminder for a mom like me who never makes enough time for it.

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Now it’s on my counter and jogs my memory every time I walk into the kitchen. As mentioned, this was our final Cricket Crate – eager to delve into Tadpole next, once the series is fully up and running!

Sock Play

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At about this age (10 weeks old or so), babies start to discover their… feet! One way to direct attention to those adorable little tootsies is to put on a pair of brightly-colored socks, and help your little one find his or her feet.

I bent Veronika’s legs up, and happily crowed, “Pink socks!” She instantly was fascinated.

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Babies love to reach for their toes, hence why they are so prone to pulling the socks right off and losing them! This time, I wanted her to do so. I loosened the sock slightly, and then it was just a matter of time before Veronika had a grip and… a bare foot!

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Who knew socks made such great toys?

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