Stop and Watch

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It’s hard to believe, but here we are with Veronika a full month old already.

“Look at how she’s looking at you!” marveled the woman at the toy store when I stopped in today, and I peeked down at my little girl in her stroller. Indeed, her wide-open eyes were laser-focused on me; I get to be a celebrity a little longer.

It was a good reminder to take the day and just pause: to take stock, to stop and look closely at her, and to see how much she’s changed in one month already.

If you do the same, simply stop and watch your baby for a little while. I placed Veronika down on her cricket blanket and just watched.

The eyes are more alert.

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The expressions are more varied.

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The hand gestures are more deliberate.

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And of course the snuggles and time together are still just as wonderful.

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What is your baby’s behavior like at the one-month milestone? I’d love to hear in the comments!

Apple Art for Tummy Time

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This is an adorable black-and-white art project you can use to enhance baby’s tummy time – and big sibs might want to get in on the craft, too!

First, I cut an apple in half, and painted the halves with a thick coat of black paint.

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Press the apples onto sturdy white paper. I made a row of three apples per page.

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To vary the image, you can also paint in full apples with little stems.

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I invited Travis to have a go at making a print, too, and we came up with this more abstract version:

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For Veronika’s tummy time, we folded the papers in half so they could stand upright, and surrounded her with a little apple forest. These are great for pointing too, and talking about the image.

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We also sang “One little, two little, three little apples…” etc. to the tune of Ten Little Indians. You could also make up stories about apples!

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What is your baby looking at for tummy time? Please share in the comments!

Safe & Sound Cricket Crate

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I’ve been documenting Travis’s subscription to Koala Crate for 2 and 1/2 years now, and it’s time for Veronika to have her very own subscription journey! I purchased the company’s three-month newborn pack Cricket Crate before she was even born, so excited was I to begin the journey.

That said, it looks like Cricket may have been discontinued, and replaced by Tadpole Crate for newborns to two-year-olds… so stay tuned! But in the meantime, I cracked open Veronika’s first of the three Crickets in honor of her one month birthday, and was delighted by the items inside.

First, I’ll cover what the kit contained. Item one was a stuffed cricket (of course!) with different materials in the limbs, body, and wings, for maximum tactile sensation.

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There was also an adorable board book, Night Night Cricket, with simple good night text and find-it items for your child as he or she gets bigger (right now I just pointed these out to Veronika).

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Next up was the swaddle – which turned out to be way more than a swaddle. I’ve only had this blanket in my hands for a few days, and already my thought is: how did I make it through the first month of her life without it?

The Wonder magazine includes a helpful page with a step-by-step to swaddling correctly (hint: start by folding the cloth into a triangle, not a rectangle shape). The cloth can be used this way until the baby is old enough to have objects in the crib or stroller more as a lovey.

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Next, use it as a storytime blanket. Because it depicts images of our little Cricket friend, it’s perfect for tummy time.

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Veronika lay down as I talked about the images, and all the activities Cricket was getting up to. We did this with her propped against my lap, too.

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Travis helped narrate the story… Perfect for big sibs who can’t read yet!

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On a practical level, we also tested the blanket as a stroller cover…

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…and a carrier cover on a windy day, keeping the wind and sun out of her face.

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Finally, it’s perfect for those times when you want to place baby on the ground, but the surface needs covering. It’s now my go-to for the baby massage I try to give her a few times a week.

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A day at the spa!

Wonder magazine included other ways to make your baby feel safe and taken care of. Most interesting was “flying.” This was a new one for me, not a move I ever tried with Travis. Supporting Veronika under the tummy, I lifted her over the blanket for a little airplane ride, alternating gentle up and down movements with side to side. She stayed remarkably calm and seemed to like it! Photo credit to big brother since I needed two hands for this one.

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We also danced, a great way to get baby used to rhythm. You can change baby’s position (up on the shoulder versus in the crook of your arms), and freeze for a few beats now and then.

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I also used the blanket as a prompt for singing. The image of Cricket on the bus had us singing along to Wheels on the Bus, and acting out the versus with her arms and legs.

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The obvious difference between this and a Koala Crate is that Wonder magazine is very much aimed at the parent, not the child. It’s quite text-heavy, and included tips on building a relationship with your newborn, advice on sleep, and tips from a pediatrician for when your baby cries.

An online link from the crate led to additional parental resources, including adorable printables for “milestone stickers”. Just in time for Veronika’s one month!

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Finally, the website included suggestions for further reading. We added to our library:

Goodnight Gorilla

Good Dog, Carl

Pat the Bunny

and The Going to Bed Book

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Excited to unpack the second box of the newborn set soon!

Develop the Gaze

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Here’s our final activity for the first month of Veronika’s life! As with many of the activities this early on, today’s was about taking a quiet moment – a must, for an infant in a busy home! We paused just to look at each other, and truly give her time to develop her eyesight.

Great moments for this include nursing – when an infant is an ideal 8 to 10 inches from your face – or when you hold your baby in your arms. Veronika loves being cradled in one elbow and just staring up at me – I swear she makes me feel like a pop star. This might be the closest I’ll ever come to the celebrity status of a Bruno Mars. In particular, she seems fascinated when I eat, eyes big and wide.

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So today, give your baby these moments, and take time to gaze back. Here’s another wide-eyed stare I caught on camera, although the flash made her blink.

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You can also let infants stare at their big siblings, from a slightly further distance away. This will be a great way to develop their eyesight. Travis loved helping out for today’s demonstration!

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What does your infant love to watch you do? Do they seem fascinated by a particular feature? Please share in the comments!

Check the Diaper Bag

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If you’re following along with my daily infant activities, then your newborn is nearly a one-month-old! That likely means that even new moms and dads are beginning to venture out with baby, if they haven’t already. And for veteran parents, you’ve probably had to take baby everywhere since day 1! But chances are the fatigue is catching up to you after 4 weeks with little sleep, and it’s a good time to do inventory before you step out of the house… of the diaper bag that is.

Typically, I like to keep the diaper bag mostly ready to go, so it’s a no-brainer to leave the house fast. A few items need to go in and out, but others can always stay.

First, you’ll want a good bag, one with lots of interior pockets to easily fit diapers, wipes, diaper cream, and more. A lot of great bags come with a foldable diaper mat, which is a must for yucky Koala Care stations! I love my version from Land’s End.

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Once you have the bag, sort out the baby essentials, which can mostly live in the diaper bag and be restocked as needed. I keep a spare outfit (usually my least favorite outfit in Veronika’s current size) and only change it if it gets worn. Also of course are diapers, wipes, diaper cream, and plastic bags for disposal.

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Don’t forget older siblings, who may need a change of clothes, too, if still young. Bigger kids can get away with a water bottle and snack, which you can keep on hand. And throw in a snack for yourself, mama! All this takes energy.

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Extra credit goes for entertainment. Leave in an easy baby book or a favorite toy. Magazines are great for big kids, since they weigh almost nothing but include great entertainment.

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Happy travels!

Dancing Hands

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This adorable activity is a great way to help your infant discover his or her hands, and feel how they are connected to the rest of the body.

Simply hold your baby’s hands (or let them hold on to you with the grasp reflex), and start to make movements. You can do this randomly, but it’s even better to music.

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You can try soothing music – we did a few strains of Mozart! – but feel free to make things more upbeat if that suits your baby’s mood.

Maybe because she hears it all the time (thanks to big brother), Veronika seemed to prefer having her hands rock out to pop music.

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Travis joined in for an impromptu dance party.

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This ended up being a great sibling bonding moment, his feet and her hands dancing to the beat. A great little activity!

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Bird’s-Eye View

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I’ve tried out various ways of carrying Veronika around the house, both for her own sense of discovery (the “leopard” is great for little tours around the house!) and to keep things novel for myself as a parent.

Today was all about propping her up over the shoulder, which gives your little one a “bird’s eye” view of things. Not only will a home look different for an infant who normally lies down, but this position also has the benefit of helping with babies who spit up frequently.

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I’ve read recommendations to keep a baby upright for 20 minutes after each nursing session, but honestly who has the time? If I carry Veronika on my shoulder for a bit, she gets upright time and I still get things done!

So today’s activity is simply to give the bird’s eye view a try. You can (as with leopard pose) do a little tour around the house, or just narrate your chores as you move about one room.

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Or take your baby to look at something beautiful, as we did with a local Christmas tree festival – the bird’s eye view was perfect!

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“Baby Napping” Sign

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We’ve been lucky so far with Veronika – she can pretty much sleep through any level of noise, be it a birthday party or an afternoon at home. But as we enter the holiday season, there’s going to be a lot more noise and a lot more company, and sometimes it’s helpful to give guests or neighbors a hint that baby is sleeping before they come crashing noisily in.

This is a great project for older siblings to help with, too. We pulled out Travis’s art kit to put together a “baby napping” sign.

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Encourage your child to write the words on the sign if they are interested (Travis was not), and to help select colors or cute images. To wit, we glued on a picture of a swaddled infant.

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Once the sign is complete, you can tape it up in any moment that demands quiet.

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Happy napping!

Calming Pose

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Veronika has been a remarkably mellow baby; she’ll give little cries for milk when hunger strikes, and she isn’t a huge fan of car rides, but other than that, she’s usually quiet as a mouse!

So I haven’t had much need yet to calm down a very fussy baby, but I do sometimes notice that all the noise and bustle in the apartment makes her a touch overwhelmed. This calming pose is the perfect time-out – for baby and busy parent both!

Lie your baby down on a soft surface – we have a great, thick playmat that’s perfect, but a nice soft blanket or bathmat would work too.

Place your forearms and palms on the ground on either side of baby’s head and kneel in close so your faces are near each other.

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Sing softly, taking time to slow down each out breath as you do so. Not only will it calm you down – and you’ll feel a great stretch through your spine! – but it should help baby feel calmer too.

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Veronika certainly looked zen. If you don’t have time to do the full pose, just take a moment for calm out breaths, as you hum or sing. This can be during chores or a diaper change. Even that little bit goes a long way in calming your baby’s heart rate.

Photo credit in this post goes to my four year old!

Pinwheel Watch

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Today’s activity with Veronika was simple but beautiful – just the right level of activity in a busy household preparing for the Thanksgiving holiday!

But we stole a quiet moment while the morning sunshine was particularly strong on our back patio, bundled up and headed outside to watch… the pinwheel.

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Pinwheels are a great option for newborn eyes: bright, contrasting colors, plus movement that will catch their vision.

Simply sit and look if it’s windy enough for the pinwheel to spin on its own. Older siblings can give a helpful spin to get things started, otherwise!

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Either way, Veronika was transfixed.

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