Dance to a Rhythm

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Today’s activity with Veronika was as simple as can be – we danced!

With Christmas music on repeat in our home, I was reminded o take a moment for a gentle dance party.

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Veronika and I put on mellow Christmas tunes and I rocked her to the rhythm. We started out with her in my lap, just swaying to the beat. It was hard to catch her smile on camera, but she seemed to love it.

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Then we got up and danced around the room (photo credit to Travis!) for even more movement. Music and rhythm is so innate in young kids, and it’s never too early to expose them to how it feels to move to a beat.

Whether it’s holiday tunes, classical music, or your other favorite dancing tune, I hope you get up and dance with your little one, too!

Looking & Learning Cricket Crate

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We’re on to Veronika’s second Cricket Crate, with themes around developing eyesight and visual ways for your baby to explore the world. As a reminder, it looks like Cricket Crate is no longer available through Kiwi Co, but look for their Tadpole line which has replaced it!

Here’s what our kit contained this month: the featured product was a mobile to put together, and we also received a new book about our Cricket pal from month 1, this time titled Where’s Cricket?

The mobile was fantastic, if not short of ingenious. First off, the assembly of it is a perfect craft to engage older siblings. Travis loved helping slot the two wooden bars together.

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The four soft sea creatures that hang from the mobile feature snaps, so they can easily clip on…

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…or off again. You’ll see why this is ingenious in a moment.

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I mounted the mobile above Veronika’s bassinet for new visual stimulation, but the kit also contains instructions for how to permanently mount it in the ceiling above the crib. We skipped the drywall anchor this time around.

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Those soft toys will be great for baby’s eyesight on the mobile, but don’t stop there. Simply unsnap and attach to a stroller or car seat and voila – take-along toys!

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This turned out to be just what we need; Veronika is at her fussiest if she’s in the stroller ready to go and the rest of us are still getting on coats and boots.

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Now there was so much to see!

You can also attach the toys to any playmat. We gave the sea creatures a little swing to further delight her.

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The toys can also be used to encourage batting for objects. We placed the seahorse near her hands, and encouraged Veronika to reach out for it, which she seemed to enjoy.

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From here, the kit explored other ways to develop a baby’s gaze, beyond the limits of the mobile. Many of the suggestions are ones I’ve already blogged, such as a position change. Veronika likes looking around now from sitting up in my lap…

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…and here she is checking out holiday cards in an over-the-shoulder pose!

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You can also use tummy time to increase vision, propping up a board book – why not Where’s Cricket – to encourage head lifts.

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Suggestions in Wonder magazine were nice reminders to return to a few old favorites, like dangling ribbons or scarves.

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We also used fun patterned socks as little puppets.

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A few final games: We pulled out the classic peek-a-boo, both behind my hands and behind a see-through scarf. Big wide eyes!

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We also repeated an imitation game, sticking out my tongue to see if she would copy. Almost there, Veronika!

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This months Wonder magazine was equally full of advice for parents, including what to expect in baby’s vision milestones, brain development, and a doctor’s opinion on screen time for this age (hint: none).

Online bonus material included downloadable black and white cards, also great for developing baby’s looking skills at this age. We tried ours in the bassinet, and then later taped up during tummy time, which got Veronika to lift her head for a few moments.

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And of course we cuddled up with suggested reading, including lots more books designed to stimulate vision:

Black & White by Tana Hoban

Gone Wild by David McLimans

I Kissed the Baby by Mary Murphy

Look, Look by Peter Linenthal

My First Book of Color by H.A. Rey

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See you in month 3!

First Smiles

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The time has come, parents! Veronika is nearing two months old, and I can finally be certain that those beautiful smiles are not just gas (although those smiles are cute, too!), but actual social smiles. If your child is between 1 and 2 months of age, then you should start to see the same thing.

Note: It was very hard to get pictures for this post, since the light on the camera makes Veronika squint her eyes, eliminating the full impact of her smile. But you get the idea!

Today, I made smiles the focus of my interactions with Veronika, taking the time to give her a big grin at various points throughout the day. Sure enough, if I smiled at her, I was rewarded by a big gummy grin back. If the smile reaches the eyes, then you can tell it’s a social smile, and not just a reflex. Baby smiles are cute in the bassinet…

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…or in your lap…

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…or at the diaper table.

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Invite big siblings to try this game, too. Travis has been eager for Veronika to do “more,” and he felt so rewarded when she returned his big grin.

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Tracking Toys

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Veronika and I haven’t played an eye-strengthening activity lately, so today I took some special time with her just to work on her eyesight.

Use any baby toys – particularly ones that rattle or shake or squeak – and move them slowly across the field of vision. See if your baby can follow with their eyes from one side to the other.

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Veronika seemed to love the game, eagerly following all the items.

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Once she had that under her belt, I tested out how her other toy skills are these days. Grabbing?

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Yup! She got the bird! Kicking? I was interested to see if she would kick at bright soft yarn I produced for her to see, but she didn’t do so.

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We also took advantage of holiday season and used decorations as props for the game. She loved dangling green ribbons. From here…

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…to there.

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And little present bows. From one side…

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…to the other.

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But no need for anything special. Any toy works, including classics like dangling baby “key rings”, rattles, and so much more. Happy tracking!

Visit a Fire Station

Fire Station (4)Fire stations are the latest on my list of places to visit with a baby. You may have already done so with kids aged everywhere from toddlers on up to big kids – but infants will love the sights and sounds, too!

As with other field trips Veronika and I have taken, firehouses are full of vivid colors (babies can see red quite well), and of course sounds. Note: you may want to take care that sirens are not too loud or flashing lights too vivid.

If you’re worried about the sirens in the fire station proper, see if your local firehouse has an adjunct museum. This space will have all the excitement of fire vehicles without the noise.

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And of course, that means big siblings get to play!

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Join Your Local Library

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When Travis was a baby, my in-laws kept pointing me in the direction of the library, a suggestion I originally ignored. Having grown up in a town where the library was an underutilized resource, I couldn’t quite understand the fuss. As soon as I stepped in, boy did I get it!

Not only do children’s sections often feature a wide selection of educational toys – a free playspace! – but they also offer rotating free programs, entertainment, mommy & me groups, yoga, and more.

If you’re not already a member of your local library, today’s the day to head over and check out the offerings. Veronika and I grabbed a flyer for the upcoming months, and already have our sights set on a playgroup for the youngest babies.

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In addition, your little one will benefit simply by sitting in on crafts or storytimes that big siblings attend, or hanging out in the stroller while they play.

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And then of course there’s the obvious draw at a library – books! It’s never too early to read to your infant, even before they understand the words.

Veronika and I nabbed a pamphlet with recommended reading for even the litt/est babies, featuring black & white books, or ones with vivid illustrations and simple text.

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Wake up Veronika, your brother used to love this one!

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Oh good, she opened her eyes for a cute story about a snowball. I loved taking a quiet reading moment with her while Travis was in school.

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What programs have you discovered at your library? Please share in the comments!

Take a Bath with Your Baby

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New parents, you’ve been giving your baby a bath in an infant tub for a month now, so chances are you’ve become a pro – hurray! But if you find that bathtime is a struggle for an unhappy baby – or simply want to mix things up – try out this alternative.

Get right in there in the tub with your baby.

I slipped on a bathing suit (for blog purposes, ha!) and climbed into a tub that was felt lukewarm to an adult, and just right for baby. Not only was this super relaxing, but Veronika seemed to love sitting on my lap in the water, looking up at me with big, curious eyes.

I supported her as I washed her gently, and she seemed to delight in this new way of being washed, as opposed to alone in her own tub.

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To add to the fun, big brother Travis donned a bathing suit and climbed in with us – a family affair!

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Another solution to calm a nervous infant in the tub – since you probably won’t be able to bathe with them at every bath time – is to play soothing music. My taste leans toward Mozart, but play any soothing music that your child likes.

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Here’s to happy splashing!

Visit a Local Store

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Veronika and I were in need of a field trip today. With warmer-than-usual weather and bright sunshine, I simply couldn’t stay in the house!

Rather than heading off to an enclosed, sunless mall, I recommend traveling to your nearest Main Street and checking out local stores. Or if your own town doesn’t feel safe for walking about with a stroller, find a cute Main Street a few towns over.

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Small boutiques were full of interesting things for Veronika to look at, so much to catch her eye from bright colors to sparkle to contrasting shapes. Here she is checking out jewelry displays…

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…and in the kids section!

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In addition to the visual stimulation, many small shops will have a wonderful smell as you step through the door – pine, or incense, or the aroma of coffees and teas, perhaps.

Needless to say, this was the perfect time of year for local browsing. Even if your baby falls asleep, you can knock out holiday shopping! Even just browsing, it felt good to get out of the house with Veronika, and to support local businesses in the process.

This sign says it all:

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Trade Top Tips

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If you’re a new parent, chances are you sometimes feel like you’re the only one dealing with that particular problem – whatever your baby’s current issue is! Fussiness at night, big siblings who suffer from jealousy, spit up, colic, allergies. You name it! It can be such a relief to have other parents as a sounding board, and to learn you’re not alone. These are the people who get it.

If you are new to being a parent, and don’t have a network yet, check out your local library – many have new mom groups just for this reason: venting sessions, and a chance to share tips!

I tapped into the network from Travis’s school, eagerly seeking advice of veteran moms of two (or more!). It’s great to take a moment just for coffee together while the big siblings are in school.

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That left the moms free to gab. I love finding moments of solidarity (her husband sleeps through all kid interruptions at night, too!) and also being the one to offer tips sometimes (time management, craft ideas).

So today’s activity is to take some time with your own pack of parents. Find a stroller-friendly restaurant or coffee chop, and get talking! Chances are you’ll find more similarities than differences, plus enjoy the adult socializing after a morning of cooing at a newborn.

Also P.S. None of us are having a good night’s sleep. Whether it’s the older 4-year-old having nightmares, the middle child needing milk, or the newborn baby (Veronika) nursing at 3 in the morning, we’re all popping up and down. Somewhere out there in the night, another mom or dad is up! #solidarity

Scarf Play

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Here’s a variation on dangling toys for a winter baby – turn the tassels of your warm scarf into the latest fascinating object to watch!

First, I simply dangled my scarf, and let Veronika look at the tassels.

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Seeing her wide-eyed excitement, I next held the tassels closer to her fingers. Sure enough, she clasped her fingers around them once in reach.

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I then held the tassels very still within arms-length, to see if she would reach out. Yes indeed!

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She also seemed to enjoy it when I made the tassels “jump” down to her belly and back up again.

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What an easy and delightful game! It was just right for a few moments of one-on-one play, and perfect for the season.